How to Get a Girl to Kiss You by Arousing Her

A first kiss is never easy.

It’s confusing and tricky, and one of those times that can go either ways.

She could kiss you back.

Or she could move her head away instantly, which is every guy’s biggest nightmare.

If you want to skip the scary part and get right to getting her to kiss you back in no time, here’s all you need.

If you want to know how to kiss a girl on a first date, read how to make out with a girl on a date.

How to get a girl to kiss you

Girls almost never initiate the first kiss. So even if you want to get a girl to kiss you, you’ll still have to work your magic and make a few moves first.

If you’re dating a girl, it’s always easier to take the plunge.

But if you want to kiss a girl on the first date, or kiss a girl you’re attracted to but haven’t yet asked out, you’ll have to take it slow and read the little signs she gives away before puckering up for a first kiss.

Arousing a girl and getting her to kiss you


Building the sexual chemistry is the easiest way to warm her up.

Use these ten steps when you’re with her and she’ll be wrapped in your arms within an hour’s time!

The best part about using these steps is that you can always back off the second she doesn’t respond to any of your moves. [Read: How to accidentally kiss a girl]

It’s safe, and you’ll never ever find yourself in an awkward situation.

#1 Get some alone time

If you want a girl to kiss you back, you need to build the moment. Take her to your place or see if you can get some quiet time in her place when it’s just the both of you. There should be no distractions, be it your cell phone or a stranger walking in when both of you are trying to get cozy. A dimly lit room would definitely work in your favor.

#2 Don’t ask her to kiss you

While this may seem like the easiest and bold thing to do, it almost always never works. Girls need to feel the sexual tension and arousal before making out with a guy. Unless you already know she wants to kiss you, don’t ask her to.

#3 Sit close and flirt sexually

For starters, sit close to her. And eventually, find an excuse to sit really close, either to read a book together or to show her something on your phone. Be discreet and never let her know what your intentions are, just yet.

Don’t get sexual straight away. Talk about how nice a person she is, about the time you first saw her, or about a few memorable events that both of you share. Once you’re warmed up, get personal with your talk. If you’re not dating her, talk about her relationships or the last time she made out with a guy. If you’re dating her, just talk about anything, it really doesn’t matter. [Read: Tips to flirt with a girl like a friend]

#4 Touch her now and then

Delicately touch her fingers or just play with her nails. She’s not going to mind it. Compliment her skin or her perfume. This is where you build the sexual tension by touching her softly. [Read: How to touch a girl and turn her on]
#5 Don’t laugh or try to be funny

You may be a funny guy, but this is not the time to show off your funny bone. It kills the mood. Lower your voice and speak softly. Watch out for her expressions and if she’s warming up to you, you’d see that she’ll reciprocate and start talking softly too.


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